Open Doors

Keeping options open serves as a positive metaphor for not abandoning unresolved matters. We hesitate to make decisions, fearing the loss of potential benefits. Yet, there's a limit to how many doors we can keep ajar simultaneously. I've witnessed capable individuals miss out on significant opportunities simply because they were overwhelmed by too many commitments. It’s astonishing how our best chances can slip away unnoticed when we’re preoccupied with less favorable alternatives. The reality is that we can only maintain a finite number of open loops.

Crossroads

Crossroads are also daunting for us; we prefer having clear paths to follow. A crossroads represents a hub of decisions, and making choices can be draining. For example, I’ve had the same breakfast for years: Greek yogurt, muesli, bananas, blueberries, rice cakes, and peanut butter. While it’s a decent meal, it’s not something I would choose exclusively. However, the alternative—deciding what to eat every single morning—is a decision I would rather avoid early in the day. That's one loop I choose not to open.

Life in Loops

It's essential to recognize that life consists of multiple open loops. Frequently, we abandon our dreams, projects, or causes after facing a setback. Understanding that we’re engaged in a long-term campaign is crucial. In such cases, we must prioritize certain elements over others, depending on urgency. We shouldn't close doors we've long desired to open simply because we've encountered obstacles. Learning to coexist with numerous open loops while directing our focus where it’s most needed is vital.

That Delicate Balance

Finding that delicate and often precarious balance is an ongoing challenge—a constant back-and-forth, a never-ending game of toss and catch. This balancing act is a fundamental aspect of leading a meaningful life.

While it may feel safer to choose one path and stick with it, this approach is also easier. Yet, like all things that are safe and simple, it may not be the most effective.

Today’s level of pessimistic optimism: 65%.

Written while enjoying the quiet.

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